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发表于 2019-1-31 22:22:01 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
The Spring Festival has begun in the new year. But the movement of "the world's largest population migration" is also changing quietly. According to Xinhua News Agency, the motorcycle army returning home from the Pearl River Delta to Guangxi, Guizhou, Yunnan, Hunan and other places in the past decade is a unique picture of the Spring Festival in southern China. According to statistics from the transportation department of Guangdong Province, the number of motorcycles in the army was more than 1 million at peak time. However, in the past five years, continuous interviews by journalists have found that the motorcycle army has shown a significant trend of decreasing year by year.

"No matter how far the road is, we should go home for the New Year," which is a persistent idea in the blood of countless Chinese people. It is in the context of the difficulty of purchasing tickets for Spring Festival Transport that self-driving motorcycles form a "self-help" choice to go home. Thousands of kilometers of journey home, even at the risk of cold, motorcycle ride home, but also let people see the meaning and weight of the Spring Festival and reunion for Chinese people.However, the reduction of motorcycle army in recent years is not due to the weakening of people's feeling of returning home for the Spring Festival. What it reflects is that because of the development of economy and society, people go home and travel in a more efficient, diversified and safer way - home is becoming more and more "close".

In fact, the reduction of motorcycle army can be combined with another phenomenon, that is, the rural areas began to traffic jam. Traffic jams used to exist only in cities. But in recent years, when the Spring Festival and the Qingming Festival are traditional holidays, the roads in the city are smooth, but private cars with foreign licenses are beginning to be seen everywhere in the countryside. Even in recent years, the traffic jam in the countryside has become a common phenomenon during the Spring Festival. Behind it, with the overall improvement of residents'income level and the development of domestic automobile industry, the popularization of hardened roads in rural areas, cars are no longer "luxury goods", not only the patents of "urban people" and "white-collar workers", but also many migrant workers have embarked on the road of "motorcycle for automobile", and even in recent years, the popularity of the phenomenon of windmill and carpooling has played an important role. To complement the transport capacity. When there are more private cars, the motorcycle army will naturally decrease.

Of course, for most migrant workers, taking the train home is still the mainstream choice. Taking the Huai-Shao-Heng Railway, which opened just at the end of last year, as an example, it introduced the national high-speed rail network for the first time in several counties and districts of Huai-Shao-Heng area, such as Hengyang County, Dongkou County, Hunan Province. These "big working counties" also had the first high-speed rail that directly reached the main population inflow areas such as Guangdong Province. This means that more and more migrant workers can go directly to their home towns and counties by rail, without having to change trains in the urban area or even in the next urban area as before. When more people can go home by train, the dependence on motorcycles will certainly decrease.

The central and western provinces and related counties where the migrant workers mainly leave are also the key areas for the improvement of China's high-speed rail network in the future. According to the overall development goal of China's railways, by 2020, the National Railways will basically cover cities with a population of more than 200,000, and by 2035, the basic coverage of counties will be further realized. At that time, the phenomenon of "one ticket is hard to get" in the Spring Festival Transport will be fundamentally improved, the way for trains to go home will be more and more convenient, and the phenomenon of motorcycle army will be declining, which will be the trend of the times.

In addition, the accelerated population reflux in the central and western provinces has brought about a decline in the size of China's floating population year by year, which is also an important background for the reduction of the motorcycle army. According to the report on the development of China's floating population, the scale of China's floating population has declined for three consecutive years since 2015.Obviously, from green cars to high-speed trains, from motorcycles to cars, the change and upgrading of migrant workers'way of returning home in spring is the inevitable result of the comprehensive effects of social, economic and technological development, such as the improvement of social income level (consumption upgrading), the improvement of infrastructure (railway, highway network), and the decline of population mobility scale. It also expresses a simple common sense: hard-working Chinese, deserve to have a safer and more decent way to go home and travel. Changes in the outlook of the Spring Festival Movement, including the decline in the size of the motorcycle army, symbolize a "China on the way". It is the result of social development and the footnote of social progress. At the same time, it redefines the Spring Festival Movement.Like the child below, he wrote a review letter to his mother after the exam, which revealed fear and guilt between the lines.

Mom, the Chinese test paper has been handed out. I dare not show it to you. But I know, I can't hide the papers, and I can't hide your eyes in the end. The teacher asked me to write a letter to you first. Here, I will sort out my complicated and messy mood first.Mom, I only got 91 marks this time. This time, 18 students in our class got full marks. Last time I scored 90, when I gave you the paper, you frowned and stared at me and asked how many full marks we had in our class. I said that 16 students got full marks in the exam, and you were so angry that you suddenly patted the paper on the table and said, "Why are you so stupid? They are all taught by the same teacher. Others can get full marks. Why can't you take the exam? You see, this topic is wrong again. Can't you use snacks? Such carelessness makes mistakes again and again. Can't you do such a simple topic? Are you born to me?
This time, I'll show you the papers. I'm sure they'll be criticized by you again. Then I'll halve my allowance this week and I won't be able to watch TV. Mom, I don't know why I'm so dumb. Am I really dumb? As you said, they are taught by the same teachers. Why is the difference so great? I finish my homework every day, but how hard I try, every exam is like this, I am also frustrated, maybe I am really stupid.

02 Who is more upset if the children fail in the exam?Most parents feel worse than their children: "We beat our breasts and stamp our feet in a hurry, but he or she is indifferent.In fact, we misunderstood the children. When the exam fails, the child's heart is very uncomfortable. Like the children above, they have fear and guilt. For children's young soul, this is a great setback, hope that there is a place to heal, warm family, parents'arm bend is the first place they think of. Parents should use firm and warm love to accompany their children through this setback smoothly. At the same time, the failure of the exam is also an opportunity to grow up, to help children grow up in setbacks.03 The wise father comforts the child like this.She handed me the paper. The number "108" was bright red and dazzling. My child is going to take the Beijing University exam. As a result, she only got 108 marks in mathematics, which means that she can't pass the Beijing University exam. So basically it's the death penalty.I looked at her and her face looked almost hopeless. I knew that my first task was not to let her lose confidence.

So I laughed and said, "Great, congratulations, I did so well this time!"Daughter was stunned and asked me, "Dad, are you sick? I only got 108 points, which is impossible to get to Peking University. How can you be so happy? That's great! patiently explained to her:"I ask you, if you score 140 in this exam, are you happy? A score of 140 is almost perfect, but it hides your problem. If you think you're good at math, you won't think about it anymore. Next time you're going to fail in the math exam. Since this success is doomed to the next failure, what do you mean by this success?This time, you only got 108 points. You must be thinking that if you don't study mathematics, what way can you get out? So your enthusiasm comes.

In addition, you scored 108 points and deducted 42 points. How did you lose the 42 points? It's clearly written on your test paper. You will analyze the papers carefully to see whether the basic concepts, methods or skills are out of order. Then you will thoroughly devote yourself to studying for the problems exposed by the loss of marks. You will surely do well in the next exam. This failure is bound to succeed next time. Is it not good to fail this time?
When my daughter heard this, she thought it was reasonable. She couldn't help sighing, "Dad, you are too good. This will let you explain to me. You are too good. I must learn mathematics well!" The next math test, she was admitted to the top ten of the class.04 Parents, how to help children at this time
First of all, we should accept our children and keep calm.Examination did not do well, this is a normal phenomenon in learning, we parents, from small to large, also experienced large and small examinations, children's mood we have also experienced. This is our own children, we must learn to accept them, only to achieve real acceptance, can we face the children gently and rationally.Don't scold your child or show disappointment. Your emotions will infect your children, sensible children will have a great psychological burden, sensible children will complain that you are too demanding of them. Not to mention sarcastically those words that undermine their self-confidence. Children also have dignity. Over-striking children will not only weaken their self-confidence, but also stimulate their rebellious mentality. If the child and you form a psychological confrontation, then they will not listen to what you say.

Don't be angry, don't be intimidated, don't link an exam with the future of the child, and magnify its negative impact, we must maintain emotional calm, to convey a message to the child: we have problems in learning, there are problems, solve is the most important!Never compare a child with someone else's."Why are you so stupid? All the other students can.

From 1999 to 2018, the defendant Bai Xiangqun took advantage of his position as secretary of Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region of the Communist Youth League, Deputy Secretary of the Communist Party of China Wuhai Municipal Committee, mayor of the People's Government of Wuhai Municipality, Secretary of the Communist Party of China Wuhai Municipal Committee, Secretary of the Xilinguole League Committee of the Communist Party of China and vice-chairman of the People's Government of Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region. From 2008 to 2012, Bai Xiangqun took advantage of his position as secretary of the Wuhai Municipal Committee of the Communist Party of China and Secretary of the Xilinguole League of the Communist Party of China to illegally occupy public property five times. From October 2010 to February 2015, Bai Xiangqun illegally obtained insider information from relevant stock insider and instructed others to buy the above-mentioned stocks during the sensitive period of insider information. The total turnover amount was RMB 42.56 million, and the total illegal profit was RMB 17.17 million. The leakage of insider information led to other people's insider information sensitive period. The total amount of the above-mentioned stocks is RMB 43.08 million, and the total illegal profit is RMB 40.52 million.
During the trial, the public prosecution organ presented relevant evidence, Bai Xiangqun and his defenders cross-examined, the prosecution and defense sides fully expressed their opinions under the chairmanship of the court, Bai Xiangqun also made a final statement, confessing and repenting in court, and never appealed. Representatives of the National People's Congress, members of the Political Consultative Conference, journalists and people from all walks of life attended the hearing.

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