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There is a kind of love called to be helpless

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发表于 2018-8-2 15:11:50 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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For a period of time, more than nine o'clock every night, the downstairs always come to the baby's crying, sometimes long sobs, sometimes the crying of the hoarse, the middle with a grown-up reprimand or impatient coaxing - the ceiling can't be heard from the ceiling. Listen to the crying I think it is possible that adults beat the child, several times want to dial 110 alarm, and refrain from, think it is better to go down to understand the situation.

I knocked at the door. When you knock at the door, you are also beating a drum in my heart - if the open door is a big man with a wine, smoke, eyes and red eyes, what do you think I can do to give me an old fist? Good, the door is a tired young woman, standing behind her is a middle-aged woman, in the middle of a middle-aged woman in the arms of a little girl with tears, three or four years old, she wants to cry night and night is her.

I said to the young woman, "if you hit the child again, I will call the police." Such a preemptive strike is also aimed at giving courage to oneself. Who knows, the young woman waved her hand quickly, trying to explain, as if I were a policeman. She is the little girl's mother, the middle-aged woman is the little girl's grandmother, she never said where the little girl's father went. She said that her daughter was three years old and had just entered kindergarten. Since she went to kindergarten, she had to cry every night before going to bed. She didn't go to bed until she was tired of crying.  Women's fingers scattered in the living room of all kinds of toys, in order to prove to me to love her daughter, it is impossible to hit her, but also a helpless complaint: "a lot of toys are not good, see many times the doctor has no use."

Every mother may have been faced with such an unsolved moment - the child we call an angel, with patience and love, can not solve the problems she brings. I sympathized with the young mother at a sudden. Although I am a stranger, I have encountered all kinds of child raising problems, but this has never happened before. I hesitated for a moment and came up with an idea: "I think your daughter lacks sense of security. Can you try to read together with your parents? When she is prone to crying, do not force her to sleep, hold her in your arms and read picture books with her. I returned home and picked up some of my collection of picture books from the bookcase, then gave it to the mother and little girl. I agreed with the little girl to be a brave child and never cry. The little girl took the picture book - she had never had a picture book before - which made her somewhat hesitant and excited. I agreed with her that if she didn't cry this week, I would reward her with a new picture book.
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When I said goodbye, I stretched out my hand to the little girl. With the encouragement of my mother and grandmother, the little girl held out a small hand and held it with my hand. Even though she had tears on her face, she had begun to look at the picture book and forget to cry, even though she was nervous about the stranger.

I didn't hear the girl crying again for a week, and I also sent her a new picture book as agreed. Nevertheless, I do not want to exaggerate the comforting effect of reading on a child's mood. What I want to say is that mom and dad are not a natural acquisition as long as children are born. Each parent faces a unique child. He (she) brings you the happiness and problems that are unique. Everyone may face a time when they are helpless, and at this time, the best love for the children. It is necessary to use your intelligence to find the path that is most conducive to his (her) growth.

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